Eight Reasons Why You Lose Clients – And What To Do About It (Part I)

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By Andrew Sobel

The playwright Oscar Wilde defined a gentleman as someone who “is never unintentionally rude.” Likewise, you never want to have a good client relationship end unintentionally and without a sound reason.

Unfortunately, relationships often avoidably come to an end. Clients usually just vote with their feet and don’t carefully explain to you why they are not giving you any more business. This can lead to an after-the-fact rationalization that the relationship ended due to factors entirely outside your control.

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Here are eight reasons why you may lose a client, and steps you can take to correct each situation. This month, in Part I, I’ll cover the first four. Next month, I’ll describe the remaining four.

1. A reorganization or executive turnover

Does this sound familiar? One of my clients told me: “I spent several years developing a relationship with a vice president, and then he was squeezed out in a reorganization. The new head has a relationship with a key competitor of ours, and we’ve heard he may bring them in.”

Executive turnover is higher than ever. It’s a fact of life. Get used to it. Here’s how to make the best of these situations:

  • Build many-to-many relationships with all your key clients. If the relationship depends on one single executive, you are doubly exposed—the client could leave, and your own relationship manager could leave!
  • Make sure you are connected to a senior executive above your day-to-day client. That relationship will be worth its weight in gold when turmoil hits.
  • Ensure you’re getting credit for your work and the value you’ve added is appreciated broadly in the client organization.
  • Work hard to get the departing executive to vouch for you and introduce you to their replacement (of course, if you’ve built a good relationship with them to begin with, this shouldn’t be a problem!).

2. A one-off or temporary need for your services.

Sometimes, clients only have a periodic need for what you do. A college may hire a fundraising consultant only once every five or ten years, when they do a capital campaign. A corporation might only need the services of a construction company when they build a new headquarters building.

The first and most important thing you need to do is develop additional products and services that meet recurring needs. Ask yourself, “What adjacent, ongoing needs can we help the client with?” For example:

  • A fund raising consultant can help a university run their annual campaign more effectively
  • A construction company can help clients manage their facilities and do sustainability audits
  • An executive search firm can do talent planning, executive assessments, and leadership coaching in-between periodic searches.

Second, you need to add value in-between major engagements. The client needs to perceive you as a trusted advisor in good times and lean times—when you’re collecting fees and when there’s a dry spell.

Are you calling on all your past clients each year, and adding value by sending them insightful pieces of thought leadership that addresses their most challenging issues?

Third, if your clients only rarely use what you offer, make sure you get referrals and testimonials from every single person you do business with. Your marketing strategy must be to spread a wide net, and those references will help you enormously.

3. A financial crisis or profit squeeze—and a lack of budget for you.

A friend of mine provided coaching services to one of the Big Four accounting firms. This client grew and grew, and eventually accounted for 75% of his revenue. In 2008, when the financial crisis hit, the client did not renew his contract. “We don’t have the budget for your coaching services anymore,” they told him. A familiar tale?

It is a lie, however, that clients don’t have the money to pay you. What they have decided is that using you is not a priority given their (invariably) limited financial resources.

The client who just told you they can’t afford to keep going with you is paying for all kinds of things at this very moment—some of which may be either a complete waste or have a low ROI. They may be spending money on unproductive initiatives, poor-performing executives, excess office space, ineffective advertising, too many photocopiers, and so on.

They may also be spending more on your competition. How often have you heard there is a “freeze” on all management consultants, for example, only to discover that someone is still doing millions of dollars of work for the client? Note: That firm usually has very strong relationships with key senior executives—relationships which sustain them through the lean times.

Your challenge is demonstrate why your services should attract scarce budget. You do this by:

  • Showing exactly how you are part of the client’s growth, profits, and innovation—not simply a cost, a necessary evil. You must compellingly draw a direct line between what you do and the client’s highest-level goals
  • Relentlessly communicating the value and impact of your work.
  • Spending sufficient face-time with executives so that you have a good understanding of what is most important to them.

Another client of mine was told that, due to spending cutbacks, every supplier in their market was being cut by 20%. He analyzed the client’s total spend, and came up with a plan that would save them 30%–if the client consolidated all of their business with his firm. He won the deal, and dramatically grew his business with this client, even though the pie was shrinking!

4. The impact and benefits of your work are not compelling

This reason often leads to the feeling that you aren’t needed on an ongoing basis (reason 2) or unavailability of budget (reason 3). If you are delivering good quality, why would your client feel that what you’re doing isn’t relevant or compelling? Here are some possibilities:

  1. You have not sufficiently communicated the value you’re adding
  2. You are working at too low a level in the organization and your product or service is basically hidden from view
  3. You have not shown the client how you are helping them achieve their most important goals or priorities
  4. Your work is acceptable but not perceived as “a cut above.” You’re not wowing the client in any way.
  5. The client perceives your products or services as solving a relatively insignificant problem.

Your first step must be to diagnose why the client doesn’t see you as a compelling and important provider. Then, you can take action. For example:

Can you do a better job of quantifying the benefits of your work?

Can you get some of the managers who know you and like you to vouch for you with senior management?

Can you make yourself useful in more meaningful ways to the client, either by evolving your service offering or raising your client service levels to “knock their socks off” levels?

Can you tie what you do–even if it impacts a small part of the client’s business–to something larger and more important? For example: one of my clients is in the executive relocation business. Traditionally, it’s a relatively small expenditure for corporations, and the job is given to a junior manager who is expected to get it done as cheaply as possible. My client redefined themselves as being in the business of enabling the mobile workforce, not just “relocation.” They started showing clients how what they do can be an important enabler of talent development across their clients’ organizations. This has created a unique differentiation within their industry and raised their relevance with clients.

Next month, in Part II of this article, I’ll cover four more reasons why clients leave. These are:

1. Quality or delivery issues
2. Poor personal chemistry
3. A decline in trust
4. Complacency on your part

Andrew Sobel

I help my clients build enduring relationships with their clients and other important individuals in their lives
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